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30 Days of Kink – Day 29 – That’s Mistress to you.

3 Sep

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)?  What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?

I’ve never had a title that’s stuck. Master calls me his Slut, which I love, especially when it evolves into ‘Dirty lil Slut’.

I love the use of titles. It creates a hierarchy; a pecking order. Be able to call Master ‘Master, send a shiver through me every time I use it. Especially in general conversation because I know it presses his buttons & being able to call him Master, reminds me that he is in charge of my actions & he makes my choices.

On the flip side, when I’m with a submissive I like to be called Mistress. I guess it’s a way of asserting control. Reminding the sub who is in charge & who they are serving, but this side of me comes out very rarely… I’m a submissive at heart!

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