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30 Days of Kink – Day 28 – BDSM Attire

2 Sep

Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play?  What significance does your attire have to you?

I dress as I would for vanilla sex, unless Master has told me to wear something in particular. I love dressing up for sex. It makes me feel gorgeous, strangely this only happens in underwear & I love the way the men react. Seems to make them even more determined to ruin me!

Depending on my mood & my partner, depends on what type of underwear I wear. I can do sexy & sultry if I’m feeling particularly dominant, or innocent & sweet when I want to be submissive.

30 Days of Kiink – Day 16 – Difficulties

19 Aug

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

Simple… Explaining it to others.

I don’t tell boyfriends about my kinks straight away, as I’m afraid of scaring them off & when I do eventually tell them… most of the time it doesn’t go down to well. Boys at my age are not particularly experimental. It seems they are still finding out who they are sexually, where as, women seem to be more advanced.

Also, having a kink makes vanilla sex ridiculously boring. I will very rarely climax from vanilla sex alone.